Are you tired of dealing with difficult customers?

Have you ever imagined how great it would be if you ONLY had to deal with the types of customers you enjoy? Your job would be so much more rewarding. Think about it…attracting ideal customers, working with your ideal customers.

Well, I am happy to report that you can do just that. You can attract your ideal customers and obtain the working environment you so desire.

The Law of Attraction states that whatever we give our attention, energy and focus to we will attract into our life.

So how do we go about attracting ideal customers and working with ideal customers in our business?

The first step is to decide what we don’t want in an ideal customer. To do this, we will use what is known as a T-tool. You may download your own T-tool free by visiting either of my websites listed at the end of this article. If you would prefer to make your own T-tool, just do the following:

1. Take a full sheet of paper (8.5” x 11”)

2. About an inch down from the top, draw a horizontal line across the page.

3. In the middle of this horizontal line, draw a vertical line down to the bottom of the page. (You will notice you now have what appears to be a large capital T.)

4. Across the page above the T, write My Ideal Customer.

5. At the top of the T on the left hand column, write, I Don’t Want.

6. At the top of the T on the right hand column, write, I DO Want.

The T actually divides your page into two columns. We are going to focus briefly on the left hand column and list all the things about your current and past customers that you don’t like. Such traits could be indecisive, high maintenance, cheap, complaining, and so on. Once you have completed the left hand column with the traits you dislike, we will then turn our attention to the 1st entry on the list and ask, so if this is what I don’t want, what DO I want? You will write the answer in the top of the right hand column, directly across from the first entry on the left and then line through the entry on the left.

After going through the entire left hand column and writing your DO Wants in the right hand column of your T-tool, fold the paper in half with only the right hand column facing up. We no longer wish to give any more attention to those items we listed on our Don’t Want column. They are the contrast in your life and now you want to use your new list, which is your clarity list. These are the things you want in your ideal customers. By focusing on these traits you will begin to attract into your business those customers you truly enjoy working with.

Don’t be alarmed if you notice some of your older customers fading away. This is a good thing. They most likely were customers with traits you don’t want to deal with anymore in your business. Rest assured, new customers will take their place and you will begin to enjoy your work again.

I have put this practice into effect myself and shortly after I did a client that I had not dealt with for several years contacted me and requested one of my services that she had never used before. This customer was a very frugal individual and one of my desired traits was that my customers would see the wonderful value of my services and appreciate my fees – paying them gladly. I was tired of dealing with individuals always looking for a deal or discount.

It was this returning client that truly amazed me about the power of the Law of Attraction. She never said a word about my fees for the service she was requesting and actually felt it was a great price for the high quality product I would be designing for her. The Law of Attraction was delivering the customers I desired and this returning client was the perfect example.

Since that time I have seen some clients go, and I must say gladly. They have been and are continuing to be replaced by customers that I truly love working with.

So, what are you waiting for? Isn’t it time you starting attracting the types of customers you love working with into your business?

Try using the T-tool yourself. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me and I will be happy to lend a hand.

Having a business filled with your ideal customers is like a dream come true. Thanks to the Law of Attraction, that’s exactly what it is.

Good luck and good attracting!

/>The universe runs based on laws. It is through the awareness of these laws governing our universe that living becomes more joyous and easier to manage. When you resist the laws of the universe, it doesn’t negate the existence of the laws, it simply makes it far more challenging to achieve what you most want to achieve, because you are working against the universal current instead of with it.



For example, if you are driving down the road in your car going 75 mph, and suddenly come to a very sharp curve; it makes no difference if you accept Newton’s First Law — “An object at rest tends to stay at rest and an object in motion tends to stay in motion with the same speed and in the same direction.” The law is true regardless of your belief in it or not. What does make a difference to you is your awareness, acceptance and response in relation to that law. If you aren’t aware of the law, and you don’t leave enough time to slow down and take the curve at a reasonable speed, you will suffer the possible dire consequences of your choice. If you are aware, and still resist its validity, you will still suffer the same consequences. If, however, you are aware and embrace the law, you then give yourself the freedom to make a choice that can attract far more desirable consequences — namely you go around the curve with ease and grace completely safe to continue your travels.



Becoming aware and embracing the laws that exist gives you the freedom to create and manifest your life with far more ease. Ignoring or resisting the laws of the universe leaves you in a constant battle — struggling against the natural flow. You put yourself into a situation where everything is ten times (an arbitrary number of course) harder than it has to be. And, as you may agree, the intention is to make life easier not harder!



The Law of Attraction is one of these laws. Based on Quantum Physics, the law states: All things, both physical and non-physical, are made of energy. Energy by law attracts that which is vibrating at the same speed. Thus, if you are vibrationally tuned into “X,” you will attract more “X” to you. If you are focused on “Y,” the universe gives you more “Y.” There is no judgment on good or bad in relation to what “X” or “Y” is. The universe gives you exactly what you ask for — wanted or unwanted. And the way the universe knows what you are asking for is through your focus. That which you place your focus (your energy), and thus vibrate in relation to, is what the universe reads as your request. So, if you are resonating with the emotions of sadness and frustration, you will attract experiences that match that vibration. The universe doesn’t assess that you may not want sadness; it only gives you what you are asking for. If you are focusing on not wanting something, your focus is actually still on that thing you don’t want. This means you are actually vibrating more strongly with what you don’t want than what you do want. The universe, making no judgment, simply gives you what you are focusing on.



In order to use the Law of Attraction as the tool it can be for making life easier and more joyous, you must first identify what is keeping the law from being successful. What I have found, working with those seeking to learn and use the Law of Attraction, are the top three distractions that sabotage your results and keep you from creating and manifesting with 100% success. In essence, what keeps you from taking the curve with ease and grace to continue on in your travels.



The first distraction is getting caught up in what others believe to be true or not. There are many who will argue against the Law of Attraction. They will provide their proof of how the law doesn’t work and why. They will ridicule your naivety and do whatever they can to “talk you out of” believing. My question to you is, “How does what ‘they’ think actually affect you? How does someone else’s path and journey determine what is true for you?” There will always be opposing ideas and truths that assist each of us in living the life we came here to live (thank goodness). Resisting that there are other ideas is unproductive. But, abandoning what resonates within you out of fear of being ridiculed or looking foolish is extremely counterproductive to your own journey. The Law of Attraction is based on focusing on what you want. If you fall prey to focusing on your fear that the law doesn’t work, that is exactly what you will experience.



However, I must mention that, if you question the validity of this law and are attracting those who provide you an opportunity to address that question, you must honor what you are attracting. If you simply resist your questions and what you are pulling toward you, you are actually focusing on ignoring yourself instead of connecting with what is true for you.



The key for responding to disbelievers (and not getting distracted by them) is focusing on your own knowing (inner source), instead of focusing on what you “know” (which is only a small part of the total you). Your knowing will tell you if the disbelievers you are attracting are there to confirm your knowing, expand their own awareness with your perspective or confirm what they already believe, which may or may not coincide with what you believe. It is all a perfect attraction. Everyone working on what they most need. So, embrace the questioning of others and allow them to believe and focus on what they most need for their journeys, while connecting with your own knowing, which is all that is important for your journey.



The second distraction is over emphasis on the physical manifestation of now. Instead of choosing to focus on the non-physical possibilities of now, where creation begins, you put all of your focus on what you can physically see, hear, feel, touch, etc. Note: they both occur in the now. The second, however, being a physical manifestation, can often become more real to you because it is experienced with your five senses. The reason that focusing on only your physical manifestations is a distraction is that you don’t allow your imagination to create and nurture (with the required focus and energy) the desires that are now being born in the non-physical. At every moment you have the opportunity to focus on either physical or non-physical realities. They are both equally true. However, you cannot experience the non-physical quite as easily as the physical. As the Law of Attraction is solely based on attracting that which you give the most focus to, you end up being distracted by what is in the physical instead of being energized and inspired by what is being born in the non-physical. When you get distracted by only what is, and it is not what you want, you create more of it. However, when you embrace what physically is, while focusing on what non-physically is, you then have more opportunity to create what you truly desire.



The last distraction that I have found to be most prevalent is conflicting intentions. This is a distraction that is usually hidden from yourself, but still has the same detrimental effects on creating and manifesting what you most desire. Conflicting intentions are the intentions you have that are directly or indirectly in opposition to each other; that if brought into consciousness and articulated would actually make the other impossible, improbable or irrelevant. And, as I said, you are usually not aware of the conflict, which is why it can distract you from focusing even though you aren’t aware you are being distracted.



One of the reasons this happens is because people don’t break their desires down into categories. For example, when you list what you most want, you may start with desires such as a job that utilizes all your skills, tucking your kids in every night before they go to bed and taking a yearly vacation with your best friends. Although each of these desires is a part of the big picture, they each are also goals that fall into different segments of your life. The first is a career goal, the second a relationship goal and the third could be a pastime, a relationship or a financial goal. By just writing down the most immediate desires that pop into your head, you end up missing many of the subsequent desires and hidden desires that live in each of these various areas of your life — what I call the Nine Environments of Holistic Living. By not breaking your life down into more manageable segments, you don’t give yourself the opportunity to really flesh out what you are seeking in each of these very real and often competing areas. It is in the unarticulated desires that conflicting intentions are born.



To make this clearer, let’s consider an example. Let’s say you have a desire to meet a mate for a long-term relationship, while also having a deep desire to rise to the top of your profession in the next three years. You meet an amazing person and find that this person doesn’t want you to work so much. He feels neglected that you are always putting your work before him. You start to feel very frustrated. You begin to believe that you cannot have the success you want in a career and the success you want in a relationship. However, the truth is that you simply did not articulate clearly enough when you were asking and attracting what you wanted in a mate. You may find, hidden deep in your belief structure, that you equate being loved with a person who heavily relies on you and needs a lot of your attention. So, you did attract the person you were seeking (albeit unconsciously). And, when what you asked for showed up, you found out that that you were actually attracting someone who would not support your desire to rise to the top of your profession. The conflict is within you. You didn’t articulate clearly enough (allowing your hidden belief to come to the surface) and ended up with only part of what you wanted.



The great thing is that by becoming aware and articulating desires for all the areas of your life, you can identify where there may be conflicts before manifesting what you don’t want. The key is in being aware of what you want in order to manifest the exact situation that will work for you. That is why it is imperative to not only know what you are desiring in each of the areas of your life, but to compare each of those areas and seek out where there may be conflicts hiding below the surface. Many times conflicts show up because you are subconsciously holding on to old, unchallenged beliefs from your childhood or past experiences. By breaking down your desires and then going through a comparison analysis (which is one of the imperative steps in my program), you can proactively address what you are focusing on and why. When you bring the hidden conflicts to the surface, that are sabotaging your results, you can remove them and truly focus on your desired outcome.



The Law of Attraction, when understood and used properly, can make life easier and far more joyous. Inherent in the law is your ability to focus on what you want and not what you don’t want. By taking care of the distractions that keep you from focusing, you can increase your success rate to 100%



As I always remind my clients, this is all a process. Every day is an opportunity to become more aware and practice. Find the tools you need to assist you and use the laws to make your journey joyous and your travels ongoing.

The Law of Attraction tells us that what we think about is what we attract. Put another way, the vibration or frequency of our thoughts emanates from us constantly, and changes as our moods and thoughts change.



The secret is to control or direct this vibration. When we are thinking about something and feel absolutely great about it; when we have clarity about it and do not doubt it, thought is sent out into the vibratory Universe like an arrow – straight and true.

The Universe, like a magnificent kaleidoscope, begins to shift everything required, based on our pure and undiluted desire, to put things in place to have that thing or situation manifest in our reality, in the best interest of all concerned.

So what happens when instead of utilizing and enjoying this process for the joy of all concerned, we instead settle in to just living from our choices in the past, and become entirely blind to the fact that the past does not really exist?

Answer: We live in reaction instead of creation; we live in a rut and so do not see that things can ever change – that WE can change them! How sad, and wasteful…look around you and you will see that this is the common way of thinking that surrounds you.

It is the nature of the human mind to analyze – that is the job it was born to do, and if we let it, this capacity for analyzation can become the only way we think. In fact, this isn’t thinking at all, because what we’re really doing is taking past situations – as we perceive them, which is another story in itself – and basing our current reactions on what worked or seemingly did not work then.

We must remember our minds are capable of performing the much simpler, yet much more fundamental and powerful task of being a part of conscious creation.

Imagine yourself as a three part being, made up of your spirit or essence, your body, and your mind, otherwise known as that which thinks. Your body exists simply as a physical mechanism for you to go forth and enjoy what you can imagine and therefore create. It is an ‘experiencer’. YOU get to think up fun things you would like to try, based on what you observe around you, and then go create and experience those things.

There is a connection between how you feel and what you get; feel crummy, get crummy circumstances. It follows that when you feel great, you attract more of those great feelings, along with more things that make you feel great. The beauty of this system is its’ simplicity…the better you feel, the better you feel! Therefore, the more you can feel great – about anything – the more of what you love will be attracted to you…it does not matter what you are feeling good about. What matters is your vibration.

Why not be a part of the light that awakens us all, and go forth and CREATE the life of your dreams, as you are destined to do? Embrace the creator that you are, and illuminate the possibilities for those around you as well. Go FEEL GOOD!

For many people, the concept of creating our reality with our thoughts is not new, but it is perhaps esoteric and may not seem ‘practical’. Once we are relieved of this perception, the imagination can soar to new heights, taking our creative abilities along with it.

We can often be so tied up in our every day realities that the thought of creating something we consider better seems like a dream, and we set it aside for another time, as intriguing as it may sound.

Actually, whether you realize it or not, you are creating your reality AT ALL TIMES. Your current physical world is a reflection of your thoughts…just not necessarily your thoughts of today.

We look around us and sometimes it is difficult to correlate what we see to what we envision in our minds, because in our minds we see what we WANT, not what we HAVE. This secret is called the Law of Gestation, and it means in part that the current reality we are looking at is actually our past thoughts manifested. (TIP: You will receive an e-book about this very subject as a bonus when signing up for the ‘30 Days to Wealth’ e-course).



Looking at our current reality and feeling frustration is one way that many people hinder or slow down their creative abilities. It is a simple problem to clear up, and doing so can accelerate understanding and progress immediately. By eliminating the confusion and negative thoughts that go along with this problem, we can clear our senses and create thoughts that act as arrows, propelling focused intentions into the future. Of course in ultimate reality, there is no future, but that is a topic for another day.

The bottom line here is that we have all seen many tips about how to create and manifest intentionally, but without doing the work associated with clearing blocks and negative thinking patterns, the positive aspects and joy of creating can be slowed or even halted. Preparing for the ride is actually half the fun, and once you realize the results of digging for and rooting out blocks, it becomes an adventure in itself, and leads to amazing and deeply personal discoveries.

Enjoy!