The law of attraction works in all areas of our lives. What we think about is what is real and what will manifest in our lives. This is so apparent when it comes to relationships. Very often we think things like: “Why can’t I meet someone I like?” “I haven’t been on a date in so long.” “All my friends have great girlfriends or boyfriends but I’m always alone.”
Why do we do this? Why does these negative thoughts so often rise to the top? With a simple shift in the way we talk to ourselves we can change our whole lives.
Using the law of attraction, relationships will manifest before your eyes. Simply change “Why can’t I meet someone I like?” to “I’m ready to meet someone”. Change “I haven’t been on a date in so long.” to “My break is over and I’m happy to put myself out there.” Change “All my friends have great girlfriends or boyfriends but I’m always alone.” to “I’ve had some time to learn about myself which will make my next relationship so much better.”
I’ve read so many different theories about why we have negative thoughts. My initial idea was to share some of these with you but in the end, I don’t think it matters. What matters is catching yourself, forgiving yourself, and changing the thought. And let’s talk about that forgiveness part for a minute. Forgiveness is so ultimately important to the law of attraction. Relationships with others start with your relationship with yourself. Forgiving yourself for days or months or even years of negative self-talk. Forgive yourself and let it go. If every time you catch yourself having a negative reaction or emotion, you close your eyes for a moment and forgive yourself. Your life will me measurably better almost immediately.
Practice that forgiveness for a while and then move onto reframing the negative thought. Catch - Forgive - Reframe. Catch - Forgive - Reframe. This is your life’s work. And what a life it will be. You will attract more relationships, success, and happiness than you can ever imagine!
By Brock Anderson
Tags: Boyfriends, Changing The Thought, Emotion, Forgiveness, Friends, Girlfriends, Initial Idea, Law Of Attraction, Law Of Attraction Relationships, Negative Thoughts, Relationship, Relationships With Others, Self Talk, Success And Happiness
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